"The fastest way to become a great speaker is to stop trying to be one. Play. Connect. Be present.
Big Sexy

Turning fear into fuel,
one voice at a time.
I'm Big Sexy, a passionate public speaking and confidence coach dedicated to helping individuals overcome stage fright and enhance their speaking abilities. With over 25 years of teaching and coaching experience, I specialize in using innovative improv techniques to transform fear into confidence.
As a three-time International Speech Contest winner with Toastmasters, I have honed my skills in effective communication and storytelling. My journey in performance extends through my time with Second City and Improv Olympics, where I developed a deep understanding of spontaneity and audience engagement.
Whether you are battling stage fright, preparing for a big presentation, or simply want to show up more powerfully in every room you enter, my judgment-free approach meets you exactly where you are.
Confidence is a skill.
Let's build yours.
Every session is personal. No scripts. No templates. Just you and the work.
Confidence Coaching
Unlock the version of you that never doubted itself.
Big Sexy works one-on-one to identify exactly where fear lives inside you and replace it with something lasting. Intro, Standard, and Premium packages available. Payment handled directly and privately.
Stage Fright Elimination
The spotlight becomes an invitation, not a threat.
Using improv techniques drawn from Second City and Improv Olympics, Big Sexy rewires your nervous system's response to being seen and heard. Fear doesn't disappear. It transforms into presence.
Public Speaking
From boardrooms to main stages — every word lands.
Develop vocal presence, story structure, and delivery that makes people not just hear you but feel you. Whether pitching to investors, leading a team, or addressing a crowd — own every moment completely.
Words from the
people Big Sexy
has had the privilege
of walking beside.

Big Sexy is an incredible coach. He is super intelligent and perceptive, which helps him understand exactly where you are and what you need. He makes you feel truly seen and understood, then helps you see yourself that way too. I left every session feeling inspired and empowered.
Sofia H.
Coaching Client
Stop waiting.
Start showing up.
Book a session with Big Sexy. Show up. Let the real work begin. Payment is handled directly and privately. No scripts. No templates. Just you and the work.